Change of name
Why not something a bit more like you want on the site i.e. Instead of MY Friends why not call this section 'Any other ideas?' I was not sure if you wnted people to post last words to any friends and then at the funeral ceremony the celebrant could say 'Terry has left some thoughts for some of you on 'ifishouldgobeforeyou.co.uk'. When you get home have a look at his final words to you'. Of course then everyone could see what I really thought of all the people there.